While performing in Bilbao, Spain, on her Up All Night: Live in 2025 tour, Jennifer Lopez responded to a fan’s sign reading “J Lo, marry me?” with a blunt truth: “I think I’m done with that. I’ve tried that a few times.” Jen has been married four times, with her most recent marriage to Ben Affleck ending in divorce earlier this year (2024). Here’s a breakdown of her past relationships:

Ojani Noa (1997–1998) – Her first marriage lasted just one year.
Cris Judd (2001–2003) – A dancer she met on her “Love Don’t Cost a Thing” video set.
Marc Anthony (2004–2014) – The father of her twins, Max and Emme, born in 2008.
Ben Affleck (2022–2024) – After rekindling their early 2000s romance, they married in Vegas in 2022 but couldn’t make it last.